When AI Joins the Team – Leadership's Role in an Emotionally Intelligent Transition

Let’s talk about leadership in the age of AI—not in terms of tools and tech, but in terms of trust, tone, and emotional resonance.

A recent paper by Melika Mohammadzadeh in the European Business Review, March 2025, (it was so good I am still talking about is three newsletters later…!) explored the evolving role of emotional intelligence (EI) as AI tools become embedded in HR and customer service. Their research was both timely and affirming—it confirmed what many of us in the trenches have known for some time:

The biggest risk in the AI transition isn’t technical. It’s emotional.

AI is not the problem. Our emotional readiness to work alongside it is.

And so, the spotlight turns to leadership.

Leaders Are the Translators of Emotional Meaning

AI tools may be brilliant at analysis, prediction, and process. But humans don’t work that way. We scan for emotional cues. We seek psychological safety. We don’t just want the answer—we want to feel seen, valued, and safe.

So, when a team is asked to integrate AI, what they often hear is:

Will I still be needed?

Is this about replacing me?

Can I trust this tool—or the people deploying it?

This is where emotionally intelligent leadership becomes essential. Not optional. Not “nice to have”. Essential.

As I’ve written in previous newsletters, trust is not a rational decision—it’s an emotional one. And when trust in leadership dips, you’ll see it show up as:

Gossip

Mistrust

Withdrawal

Performance drop-off

Staff turnover

Sound familiar? This transition to AI, then, is not a systems problem. It’s a leadership challenge. How leaders manage this shift—what they say, what they don’t say, how transparently they communicate—will determine how well their team adapts.

What Emotionally Intelligent Leaders Do in the AI Era:

They frame AI as a partner, not a replacement.

They acknowledge fears without dismissing them. They position AI as a co-pilot, not a threat.

They stay visible during disruption.

Silence breeds anxiety. A leader’s presence—even without all the answers—builds trust.

They develop their own EI skills.

It's one thing to talk about emotional intelligence. It’s another to practise self-awareness, empathy, and emotional regulation when under pressure yourself.

They ask, rather than assume.

The most powerful leaders are the most curious. “What’s your experience of this new system?” is a far better question than “How’s the rollout going?”

They coach, not command.

In a world where automation can drive performance, only humans can drive belonging, engagement, and mattering.

Here’s the Takeaway:

We’re entering an era of hybrid intelligence: where machine intelligence meets human emotionality. And it’s the leaders—those who show care, create safety, and cultivate trust—who will bridge the gap between automation and authentic engagement.

EI isn’t just a soft skill anymore. It’s strategic infrastructure.

And if you’re not building it into your leadership development programs, your teams may just know the systems better than they know themselves.

I help leaders and teams navigate this shift—before it becomes a crisis.

If this is something your organisation is grappling with, or if you're seeing anxiety, disengagement or dysfunction in your team, let’s talk.

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